1. My life is likely to last 10 to 15 years.  ANY SEPARATION from you will be painful for me.

2. Give me time to understand what you want from me.

3. Place your trust in me.... it's CRUCIAL to my well-being.

4. Don't be angry for me long, and don't lock me up for punishment.  You have your work, your friends, and your entertainment.   I HAVE ONLY YOU.

5. TALK to me sometimes.  Even if I don't understand your words, I understand your voice and emotions when you're talking to me.

6. Be aware that HOWEVER you treat me, I'll never forget it.

7. Remember before you hit me, that I have teeth that could easily crush the bones of your hand, but I choose NOT to bite you.

8. Before you scold me for being uncooperative, obstinate, or lazy, ask yourself if something might be bothering me.  Perhaps I'm not getting the right foods, I've been out in the sun or cold too long, I'm sick, or my heart is getting old and weak.

9. Take care of me when I get old...you too will grow old.

10. Go with me on difficult journeys.  NEVER say, "I can't bear to watch it," or I don't want   to be there.  Everything is easier for me if YOU are there.  Above all, remember that I             LOVE YOU  and   NEED YOU  to BE  THERE FOR ME.             

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